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The P.A.R.N. Weekend Intensive
With Dr. Steve Bodansky & Enchantress Shane
Play. Attention. Revealing. Noticing.

✨ A Weekend That Expands Everything

Ready to spark more joy, intimacy, and connection in your relationships?
This is an immersive weekend experience designed to expand your relational toolkit, deepen your presence, and unlock the playful, expressive version of you.

🌀 What is P.A.R.N.?

P.A.R.N. is our signature method for building extraordinarily turned on and playful  relationships:

  • Play – Open up to curiosity, laughter, and joy.

  • Attention – Learn the art of focused presence.

  • Revealing – Practice authentic vulnerability  

  • Noticing – Develop powerful awareness of yourself and your PARN-er

💫 What You’ll Experience

✔️ Dynamic sessions blending psychodrama, embodiment, and play
✔️ Guided self expressive exercises led by Dr. Steve & Shane
✔️ One-on-one coaching moments inside this container
✔️ Two days of immersive in-person sessions to drop in deeply
✔️ Support where growth feels exciting, and creative

📍 The Details

🗓️ Two Day Weekend Intensive - 8 Hours of Play, Attention, Revealing & Noticing -Split Across 2 Days

 (hours can be tailored to your travel needs, and this will be arranged before your arrival date) 
📍 Location: Rockaway Beach, New York or Walnut Creek, CA 
💲 Investment: $3800.00 - This includes overnight stay for both nights of the weekend 

*This does not include meals or outside attractions 

You’ll receive a private 45-min intention session before the weekend begins,

and a 45 minute virtual digestion and integration session approximately a week after your weekend


👥 Who it’s for:

Couples who desire more depth, more play, and more intimate connection in their lives.

🎭 Why This Weekend Works

This isn’t a lecture. This isn’t a retreat where you just listen.
This is experiential learning.
You’ll step into exercises that get you out of your head, into your body, and connected with each other in ways that are transformative and unforgettable.

 

 

 

 

🌹 Meet Your Guides

Enchantress Shane

Celebration expert, embodiment teacher, and playful disruptor.

For almost 20 years Shane has been bringing psychodrama,

creative expression and ritual into her work to help

people break out of old patterns and step into joy.

Dr. Steve Bodansky

Author, teacher, and mentor in sensual relationship dynamics.

Steve brings decades of wisdom in attention, intimacy,

and revealing the truth of who couples are. 

Together, they co-create an extended massive space

that is safe, alive, and deeply playfully transformative.

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🌊 Your Invitation

This isn’t just a workshop—it’s a chance to reset the way you relate to yourself and your partner.

👉 Reserve Your Spot Now (pay in full)

👉 Deposit to Reserve Your Spot Now (balance due before the weekend)

📣 What People Are Saying

  • "The P.A.R.N. method brought me closer to my partner than years of therapy ever did." Russel S.

  • "Shane and Steve create magic—safe, fun, and unforgettable." Lisa H.

🔥 Ready to step into Play, Attention, Revealing, and Noticing?
Click below and join us for a weekend that will ripple through every part of your life.

👉 Yes, I’m In! Reserve My Spot for the weekend intensive 

After you register,, you'll receive a welcome email with a questionnaire, and choices of available dates. 

If you have the desire for a one day intensive VIP play day, schedule a 20 minute consultation here to discuss that further. 

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✨ Here’s a sneak peek of what we might explore together (tailored to your needs): Daily Sessions We’ll spend—8 hours total across two days. Each session is designed to move at your pace, with space for laughter, intimacy, discovery, and creativity. No rush—just connection, curiosity, and depth. The P.A.R.N. Method Our time will be guided by the P.A.R.N. framework: Play: Lighthearted exercises that spark joy, connection, and creativity in your relationship. Attention: Practices that sharpen your awareness of each other, deepen presence, and bring more mindfulness into every interaction. Revealing: Guided conversations and embodied practices that open space for honesty, vulnerability, and truth-telling. Noticing: Tools to slow down, tune into subtle sensations, and appreciate the beauty of what’s unfolding moment by moment. Communication & Connection You’ll learn how to express desires, listen deeply, and create a safe channel for open communication. These skills strengthen both intimacy and trust, with all the feelings and emotions that come up. Sensual Exploration With guided exercises, you’ll rediscover the spark in your connection through mindful touch, sacred intimacy practices, and deep presence with each other. If you're appetite is ready, you will experience hands on time with your parner guided by Steve of a extended massive orgasm. Body Awareness & Self-Love Reconnecting to the body is a key part of the journey. You’ll explore practices that cultivate confidence, pleasure, and a sense of feeling fully alive in your skin. Sacred Rituals We’ll integrate meaningful rituals and ceremonies to anchor your experience—transforming it into something you can carry into daily life. Personalized Practices Every couple is unique. You’ll receive custom-tailored practices—movement, meditation, and touch—to support your personal intentions and relationship goals, that you can use after the VIP weekend.

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Location

Your P.A.R.N. experience will take place in an elegant, private setting designed for deep connection and expansion. We host in two unique locations: ✨ Rockaway Beach, NY – A coastal sanctuary where the ocean breeze and expansive skies invite ease, play, and possibility. ✨ Walnut Creek, CA – A serene California escape surrounded by beauty and calm, the perfect environment for turning inward and sparking joy. If you’re seeking an ultra-luxury destination retreat, let’s design it together. Schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation call to explore a bespoke experience tailored just for you.

Schedule a 20 minute consultation here to discuss exotic locations further. 
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